Dating sites have largely the coast at the moment: TV commercial , operations Street Marketing , buzz and viral videos, they are everywhere! And if they are everywhere, is that more and more people use them, and more and more girls too! The net has become a new playground for the dredge and meetings , as all this is democratized ,I propose in this paper a method in 4 simple steps to maximize your chance to seduce on a dating site .
1) Try for free
Almost all the attractions of this name offer free trial offers to test the service , and frankly, no need to go spend money when you can do things and not to succeed under . Do not be afraid to be stingy ;)
Why stay in free ? Simply to ensure that the site is quality before pay anything ! It would be useless to pay for damage and you create a profile on a site that does not worth it, on which there would be millions of such records of men and very few women .
Some points to look for to ensure the quality of a site :
The "quality" of women enrolled ( beauty , intelligence, and other features that you are looking for)
The female / male ratio
Ease of use of the site
The value of the detail ( that you can put / write / add to make your profile the most comprehensive and attractive as possible : several photos, videos, etc. )
2) Complete your profile PROPERLY
Once you have registered on the best sites , we will have to take a little time to update your information presentation in the right way . And it is often the rub for many men :
They provide explanations / descriptions / presentations senseless , completely drafts and not optimized , they have pictures exceeded, and the romantic play distracted by imagining that it will melt girls.
Remember that these girls / ladies are also dating sites for sex without complex , so no need to scare them away with romantic nonsense inappropriate !
Here are the items you focus :
Photo profile: put here updated every month , with the shots taken in the month. Nothing naughty or moved, just a nice photo of yourself that shows you the size of the head so that your face is clearly distinguished . For best results , make tests with different pictures, to see which give you the greatest number of views and the best reactions from women.
Other pictures : You will need a number of other photos showing you in various situations : smiling in the evening surrounded by friends , doing an activity, a picture of yourself shirtless (if you're proud of your muscles ) . NOT SEXY / NAKED / SEX PHOTOS . It sounds silly, but anyway his photos will be moderated and you may even be excluded from the site. Do not put that pictures of you shirtless , it's the guy who tells .
Women like to imagine what it may be below the shirt and the rest of the clothes, do not reveal too much too fast !
Video: If the site allows, you can add a video to your profile. I recommend a short video (30 seconds max) to the webcam ( no stupid scene setting please !) , where you briefly introduce , in which you say you are there " to meet people friendly, and share good moments . " Be smiling, playful , but do not be creepy ! stay as cool and natural as possible !
Your presentation : Be honest, sincere and a little " playful " . Implying subtly that you are looking for , whether it's sex or a serious relationship, but do not be alarmed by announcing the " rough and ready " color, it is only your presentation (see next tip) . Women also like to introduce you , keep in below the elbow to the meeting. Feel free to play a little on the false naivete , saying for example " I want to meet a nice girl and open , but I'm a little new here ... so be nice ;)"
Sexual Interests : if there is a field to fill for it, then you can clearly state what you are looking for. Again , subtlety is still required , no need to write the script for a porn movie. women love the implied suggestion and things (think elsewhere in book 50 Shades of Grey for that! )
Generally , hitch - you look more natural and real as possible , this is the way that women respond more or consult you as your profile.
3) Contact the women you want
Once your profile is complete and it fits you , then you can start contacting women on the site. There are a few rules to keep in mind when you contact , and most important :
Give them a reason to read your message
Play with the subject / title of the message, and think well , it's a bit your catchphrase . This is what she read in the first and decide whether or not to read your message. For this, your text must be :
Making people laugh / smile
Intrigue / stoke curiosity
Be engaging / compelling
Two examples of message titles . According to you , which gets the most views / answers ?
Title 1: Hi Beauty ! I love your breasts :)
Title 2: ** WARNING ** ( A guy wants to talk to ) - if we were talking a little bit? ;)
Then ? ;)
Obviously, Title 2 is much better : it ready smile , arouses curiosity and encourages click . You get the picture ...
4) Keep track of your contacts and meetings
If you really want to take advantage of internet dating , and make it a safe and effective way to meet new women often and easily , then you will have to organize a little!
1) Try for free
Almost all the attractions of this name offer free trial offers to test the service , and frankly, no need to go spend money when you can do things and not to succeed under . Do not be afraid to be stingy ;)Why stay in free ? Simply to ensure that the site is quality before pay anything ! It would be useless to pay for damage and you create a profile on a site that does not worth it, on which there would be millions of such records of men and very few women .
Some points to look for to ensure the quality of a site :
The "quality" of women enrolled ( beauty , intelligence, and other features that you are looking for)
The female / male ratio
Ease of use of the site
The value of the detail ( that you can put / write / add to make your profile the most comprehensive and attractive as possible : several photos, videos, etc. )
2) Complete your profile PROPERLY
Once you have registered on the best sites , we will have to take a little time to update your information presentation in the right way . And it is often the rub for many men :
They provide explanations / descriptions / presentations senseless , completely drafts and not optimized , they have pictures exceeded, and the romantic play distracted by imagining that it will melt girls.
Remember that these girls / ladies are also dating sites for sex without complex , so no need to scare them away with romantic nonsense inappropriate !
Here are the items you focus :
Photo profile: put here updated every month , with the shots taken in the month. Nothing naughty or moved, just a nice photo of yourself that shows you the size of the head so that your face is clearly distinguished . For best results , make tests with different pictures, to see which give you the greatest number of views and the best reactions from women.
Other pictures : You will need a number of other photos showing you in various situations : smiling in the evening surrounded by friends , doing an activity, a picture of yourself shirtless (if you're proud of your muscles ) . NOT SEXY / NAKED / SEX PHOTOS . It sounds silly, but anyway his photos will be moderated and you may even be excluded from the site. Do not put that pictures of you shirtless , it's the guy who tells .
Women like to imagine what it may be below the shirt and the rest of the clothes, do not reveal too much too fast !
Video: If the site allows, you can add a video to your profile. I recommend a short video (30 seconds max) to the webcam ( no stupid scene setting please !) , where you briefly introduce , in which you say you are there " to meet people friendly, and share good moments . " Be smiling, playful , but do not be creepy ! stay as cool and natural as possible !
Your presentation : Be honest, sincere and a little " playful " . Implying subtly that you are looking for , whether it's sex or a serious relationship, but do not be alarmed by announcing the " rough and ready " color, it is only your presentation (see next tip) . Women also like to introduce you , keep in below the elbow to the meeting. Feel free to play a little on the false naivete , saying for example " I want to meet a nice girl and open , but I'm a little new here ... so be nice ;)"
Sexual Interests : if there is a field to fill for it, then you can clearly state what you are looking for. Again , subtlety is still required , no need to write the script for a porn movie. women love the implied suggestion and things (think elsewhere in book 50 Shades of Grey for that! )
Generally , hitch - you look more natural and real as possible , this is the way that women respond more or consult you as your profile.
3) Contact the women you want
Once your profile is complete and it fits you , then you can start contacting women on the site. There are a few rules to keep in mind when you contact , and most important :
Give them a reason to read your message
Play with the subject / title of the message, and think well , it's a bit your catchphrase . This is what she read in the first and decide whether or not to read your message. For this, your text must be :
Making people laugh / smile
Intrigue / stoke curiosity
Be engaging / compelling
Two examples of message titles . According to you , which gets the most views / answers ?
Title 1: Hi Beauty ! I love your breasts :)
Title 2: ** WARNING ** ( A guy wants to talk to ) - if we were talking a little bit? ;)
Then ? ;)
Obviously, Title 2 is much better : it ready smile , arouses curiosity and encourages click . You get the picture ...
4) Keep track of your contacts and meetings
If you really want to take advantage of internet dating , and make it a safe and effective way to meet new women often and easily , then you will have to organize a little!
