How to date a good attorney? it's not that difficult...

You do not know how to date a good lawyer ? You do not have the money to pay? Stop the ideas : the lawyer is a provider of services subject to competition. Prices are negotiable. There are several ways to find an attorney. The key is that he must be trusted to defend your interests.

Rely on word of mouth to find a lawyer
You might have in your circle of friends, relatives or colleagues who have had to deal with a lawyer. If they are happy with their lawyer, they will recommend you . If, however, they do not have good memories , they will advise you to flee.Listen to your environment if their lawyer is well enough to manage their affairs and that he recommends is that you can trust.Attention to justice disappointed if your loved strongly recommend you take a specific lawyer , try to find out why. Is that their lawyer was not enough available? Or do they believe that it is the fault of the lawyer if they have lost their case ?
In the latter case , it is relative : a lawyer is not a magician, he does what he can with the facts of the case he has. If, for example, you took the act of theft , the lawyer can advise you and defend you to minimize the penalty, but can not guarantee that you will not go to jail!
Where can I find a lawyer?
Check with your local council : a list of registered lawyers in your department is displayed.You can also find the directory of lawyers on the websites of the Bar .Avocados are classified by specialty and city. Many lawyers do not have a specialty in this case, do not hesitate to call them to see if they can take your case.A tip : choose the proximity of your lawyer to help you move to his office .Take it near your home, your office or in any case make sure you can get there easily by public transport .Warning! If you choose a specialist, the fees will be more expensive because the lawyer in a jurisdiction other than his colleagues did not.

Compare prices lawyers
Once you have found the number of several lawyers , call them and ask them the price of first appointment and a price range to handle your case.
Do not hesitate to call several lawyers to compare prices.
If you plan to apply for state aid to pay your lawyer , indicate to counsel during your phone call : all lawyers are unwilling to defend litigants to legal aid .
Another tip: you can rely on your first impression. Choice of counsel is important: if the first contact is bad, you may have a bad feeling throughout the rest of your case, which often take years. Better to ensure that the current flows smoothly from the start!

Tips : Free access to a lawyer
There are free hotlines lawyer in town halls , access to the right point , the houses of the lawyer ... You can make an appointment with the lawyers who give free consultations for your first review case. The lawyer who will receive you can take your case and defend yourself in your business.Check with your local council to find out the times and locations of the consultations.


Legal protection in the insurance contract
You have a home insurance or make sure your car ? Did you know that many times , you get insurance " legal protection " under your insurance policy ?Check your insurance policy to see if you qualify for legal protection and what it applies.If you have insurance , call your insurer, it will offer the services of a lawyer with whom the insurance company works .
Warning! You do not have to take the lawyer chosen by your insurer : you can choose your own lawyer and the insurance company will pay your lawyer the price stipulated in your contract.

Lawyer appointed 
If you earn less than € 1,393 per month , you are entitled to assistance from the State to pay your attorney's fees, regardless of your dispute. In this case, you can seek help before choosing your lawyer : the legal aid office will assign a lawyer unless you find yourself a lawyer who agrees to defend with legal aid.
If you are sued by a criminal court , you have the right to request a court-appointed lawyer : attention -appointed does not mean free . The judge will ask the president of the order of lawyers you appoint a lawyer . If your income is less than € 929 per month , your attorney will be paid by the state. Beyond that, you will be asked to pay a fee .

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Date on Facebook: Yoke, intelligent app that connects you with the right people

The advantages put forward by the designers of the application?
Its simplicity to start. Everything was done for the convenience of its users : no long profile to fill out, no long tedious complete description. Not here Yoke scans your activity , your tastes and interests by tapping into the wealth of information that Big Brother Facebook has collected on you to profiler in the background without intervention required on your part. , You just have to define what kind of people (sex , age and city : ASV, like the good old days of drag on IRC , nostalgia ), then select up to 5 great photos of you and voila .
Its discretion, then : designers service you promise , the application is designed to act discreetly , nothing will burn you with your Facebook friends : no message like "I just met  through Yoke ". no annoying messages posted on your wall , nothing, total discretion. The only people concerned are you and Yoke users with whom you contact .
His "intelligence" finally . Not just " you like Daft Punk , I present to you a girl who likes Daft Punk ." Here , the developers say they have developed an algorithm capable of taking into account multiple criteria and to close ties based on assumptions . For example: you like Gustav Mahler (you 're right ) , so, Yoke understands that you are a man of taste and you like classical music , it may suggest that you get in touch with this beautiful cellist newly arrived near home to his studies. Big promise : if they are actually able to do that, it gets interesting.
Source of this image: Mashable.com ( suddenly no I was not born in New York)
Is what I believe ? Such an application she has a real interest?
To have good friends geeks, and seeing what they can do with the resources made available to developers through Facebook, I have no doubt about the proper functioning of the app : no doubt it will succeed to connect with people .
Where I have a doubt, this is the relevance of the persons nominated . Ok I love electro , cheese fondue and the films of David Fincher . But this is not necessarily so far that it will stick with a chick just because she loves tartiflette, Fight Club and Sébastien Tellier. You see the trick? The chemistry with people , it's not a matter of common interests (ok , it facilitates conversation and the first contacts, ok ) ... it's also a question of attitude, temperament, character and shared values ​​, or at least relatively similar. And , I doubt that the application is able to detect whether a particular girl is smart, mature and balanced , or on the contrary, remained unstable big who does not know what she wants in life. Or I say hat.
Brief. A test, at least for fun mode " I wonder who 's going to introduce myself ." Anyway, it's free. After that, you are free to play the game thoroughly and engage contact with chicks you release the app . After all, it is a facilitator of meetings as another Facebook . Anyway Yoke seems a promising future: its designers, a New York startup , recently lifted $ 500,000 to continue its development . No yucky .

In any case it buzzes on dry Yoke is talked about everywhere on the net and servers seem overloaded , probably due to the influx of new members trying to register and test the application in time same .
The idea seems potentially interesting for those hoping to actually expand their circle of acquaintances using the omnipotence of FB . And if you happen to find the woman of your life, or your next sex session , well , good for you !

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Make the difference between dating sites and online chats

Singles of the 21st century can now take the advantage of the Internet to hope to meet someone with whom to share their lives. Dating sites have proliferated in recent times, and there are more than 2000 . But there are also online chats .This is may not necessarily have the same value .

Dating sites

A dating site is a platform on which we will have to create an account in order to define our profile ( name, photo, age , address ...) . With this profile we can then use the site. It is usually paid even if some are free . However , most sites are free for women.

A dating website has several tools to enable people to meet another person who may be of interest : messages, refined search , counseling, organization of parties ... The aim is to meet the needs of singles.

 Online chat

An online chat site allows you to chat live with a person via internet . That is why the goal is not necessarily looking for the future "soul mate" , but people are also going to discuss or pass the time. There is no need to register or pay .

What are the best places to flirt

Long gone are the days when men and women seduced during a ball held in the town or village.Now , habits have changed. This is also the case of the most favorable dredge locations.The best places to meet your soul mate.

Let's start by finding out what are the top three places in which you are most likely to find a soul mate . This is based on various surveys lately. In third place we find the dating sites and social networks . While they do not exist there is still a few years. These online sites are booming . More and more people are found on the internet .

However, these websites are preceded , for the moment, by evenings with friends. These have allowed 18 % of respondents to meet their first long relationship. In first place we find the studies. They are proving to be the most suitable place to meet your soul mate , or at least the first sexual partner.

The least effective places

If there are the best places to meet your soul mate , there is always those who, on the contrary, are less favorable. It is particularly difficult these days to seduce someone in the street . For it to work, it must be very convincing.

No need to say that communal balls no longer have all the odds. They represent only 2 % of respondents. It is the same for all that is marriage agencies , public festivals and associations. In addition, clubs are not as efficient as a few years ago . They represent only 11% of first meetings and 7% of first sexual partners.

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Dating Sites Tips

A virtual relationship, it is becoming common with the advent of the Internet.A little feeling , more or less intense, can bring two people , until one day ....Affectionate exchanges but ...

Development dating sites allows people more or less lonely to find someone who "talk." Specifically, there may be no real encounter occurs , the relationship is limited to exchange of mails, chats affectionate , nothing more.

Then the "honeymoon " is nearing completion . Difficult to accept , but sometimes , on both sides, it happens that we have nothing to say. In this case , trade may simply stop. When it is only one of the protagonists who no longer want to continue the conversations , how? Leave the other plan without saying anything, it is - unfortunately - common. But what lacks elegance !

Not be part of the coarse characters, why not write again , a detailed e-mail? By detailed , one must understand not meaningless arguments , or tending to spoil the relationship that no longer has a purpose. At best, explain with words chosen and sincere ( this is important) why you would want to end the relationship.

Imagine if it was him (or her ) that we should write it , how we react ? The person receiving such mail can be offended , refuse to be silent, or just say ... thank you .

Dating Sites : How to avoid disappointment ?

In love , there are many to have placed too much hope in the other , and ultimately were disappointed. The heartbreak are therefore usually part of relationships.To avoid unnecessary suffering , it is always wise to take precautions and follow some tips .Do not rush

When we registered on dating sites online , we often want to meet someone as soon as possible . But it is in precipitation are born disappointments. One has to take his time and choose another rationally and thoughtfully .

To avoid disappointment , do not set the bar too high and put too much hope in these dating sites . You have not found your ideal in a site? Do not despair, you will surely find elsewhere. Do not hesitate to move from one site to another , because it is not registered with a site, it will surely be another !

Failures make us stronger

There is no doubt that you will be disappointed at a first meeting. Now love is a history of heart as a story of luck. If you do not feel this feature thrill your first appointment, do not make a fuss and relativisez the situation. The next appointment may be good : persevere !

We advise you to increase meetings to increase your chances of finding a soul mate, and let your heart decide!

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Dredge 2.0 arrives on Smartphone

Nothing can stop progress! Indeed, in recent years have seen many changes with new communication technologies and the arrival of smartphones. If these changes have transformed the lives of millions of people on earth , they also created a new generation of actors in the world of online dating.

Dozens of apps to meet your soul mate !

Sites of traditional and other new operators meetings quickly realized the challenge of new mobile media such as smartphones and tablets and have developed applications to meet the needs of singles, more connected. These are often busy with their work, dating apps have adapted to their needs through a major advantage: the geographical location . Using this technique , it is now easy for a Singles to find or , in real time, a geographically very close partner , facilitating meetings and favors romantic rendezvous or even intimate .
The competition is fierce !

Undisputed leader in apps forum for smartphones and tablets , Meetphone has attracted tens of thousands of singles with just its geographical location service in real time. Traditional players in online dating as Meetic, also understood the importance of this technology, but are still struggling to adapt to this market net expansion. And I must say that the competition is fierce.

Indeed , there are now a multitude of application to meet a partner through his smart phone. And there's something for everyone ! Some apps have chosen to specialize in a particular niche as gay, swingers or those who are just looking as a little company .

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Dating sites: "If we do not know when to stop, we lose"

Interview with Stephen Rose, journalist and author of " Misery - sexuelle.com , the black book dating sites " ( The Musardine , 2013).

Many users of dating sites are disappointed . Why ?

- The most disappointed are those who define and seek a partner with a multitude of criteria , all too accurate. These lost souls end up wandering on dating sites like zombies for years. When I myself was a user, I always fell on the same profiles connected 24h/24 such mosquito mesmerized by neon . The height of online dating is that it gives the illusion out of loneliness , while many never meet anyone. The site then becomes a more screen , which " opens " habit, like Facebook. The very purpose of the quest evaporates.

Superficial contacts , exchanges interrupted without explanation ... The casually seems the rule.

- Even when seeking a relationship , you end zapper . Everything is done for , windows open unintentionally : "Look , as new profile just connected ." It's very exhilarating and addictive. At first, I led several meetings and conversations in parallel. We jump to record in detail , saying that we can always do better , someone more beautiful, who earns his living better ... The danger is falling into a consumer comparison . If you do not know when to stop , you get lost , especially in large cities, where the choice is overstaffed . In the countryside, it is different. There are fewer opportunities , so we made ​​more effort when you find someone.

Can we exist on these sites other than fragmented by criteria?

- Of course, it is always possible not not completely fill plug , to settle for a brief presentation , without photo . I tried to preserve the mystery of seduction. But in doing so , we close the door to many registrants immediately , you will be suspected of being perverse and hide something.

What advice would you give to a new member?

- Do not stay in the virtual. Once a match starts early , propose immediately to see "real" .

How dating sites have evolved?

- Assuming a cynical posture and "rock " Adopt a guy old-hat Meetic, corny and misleading because it promises true love. Sites " affinities " such as Meetic Affinity and Attractive World, they are very biased. They require complete endless forms, absurd questions: "Loyalty is important to you ? " . As if we would answer no! The future is now on social networks , which have the advantage of being free. Facebook is THE new dating site, we do not spend a " crevard ", since its primary purpose is not looking for a partner. Viadeo or Twitter can also be cruising areas . From that exchange , there is issue of seduction!

Interview by Berenice Rocfort Giovanni

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Easyrencontre, the most accessible site Valentine

Easyrencontre gets the best performance in terms of availability and load time on the occasion of Valentine's Day . Match.com recorded the worst results , according Witbe .

Easyrencontre will be able to communicate on the speed of service. 1 to February 14 , this site was the best performing sector in terms of access , according Witbe . A first place finish with an access rate of 100% , but mostly because of the loading time shorter sector . On average, the home page is displayed Easyrencontre in 1.8 seconds .


Three other sites have also been available on the measured period . It is the leader Meetic, of SeRencontrer and Netclub . Meetic is third , trailing by E- Day, because of loading time of 2.3 seconds . SeRencontrer is fifth and ninth Netclub this ranking.
Both sites are underperforming encounters love and especially Match. Visitors to the site of the world leader in the sector averaged 4.8 seconds to load the home page. Twice as Meetic, he tries to catch up by increasing its efforts since 2006 ( Read the interview CEO Jim Safka : "Thank Meetic " of 20/09/06 ) . Note that two of the three least accessible sites belong to Match, which bought Netclub there two years ( Read Interview DG France Arnaud Juggle : "The acquisition of Netclub is a step to become number 1 in France " of 01/03/07 ) .
SeRencontrer fifth this year, was number one for a similar ranking in November 2004 ( Read Performance sites :  plays promptness, 29/11/04 ) . Netclub Amoureux.com and were already in the bottom. In a little over four years , the performance has improved since the load time decreased 0.7 seconds and the success rate rose 0.74 points .

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"The customers are demanding change dating"

Launched in July , the dating site Smartdate concluded a second round of € 3.5 million. Its founder says the key to its success.

JDN . You just wear your second fundraising within four months? How did you choose your investors ?
Fabrice Le Parc . I opted for the proposal stone Koscuisko -Morizet and Pierre Krings through their holding Kernel because they are entrepreneurs. They know the issues emerging companies in this sector and do not require us to be profitable immediately , unlike many investment funds. We have preferred to fund Venture Capitalists . They will not have an operational role in the development of Smartdate , however I can easily ask their advice. Our agreement is very good.

What developments do you have planned with these new funds ?
We will use these funds to acquire membership in Western Europe and the United States, via the online advertising. We are currently undergoing testing in the United States and visibly conversion rates deed of purchase are stronger in France . Culturally, the U.S. and European markets are quite similar. However , the U.S. market does not pose the problem of the diversity of languages ​​. Finally, there are more players overseas , but the market is also wider .

Since your launch in July , what is your growth rate ?
We know an exponential growth rate. Today we have about 800,000 members, with a recruitment rate of approximately 15 000 new registrations per day . In terms of unique visitors , today we are 8 million per month.

How do you explain such a takeoff on an already crowded market ?
The market is not new, but users who are interested in dating sites like to change. They are seeking new products and new concepts. Or Smartdate offers a more ergonomic and modern product . In particular, we propose a tool that optimizes search for contacts, " SmartMatch " . This is a search engine as often use e-commerce sites or sites like Pandora or iTunes Genius with his tool. The tastes of the users are refined as and when their research. In the area of ​​online dating , it is still rarely used .

What does the inclusion of an option Facebook Connect to your site ?
We considered two strong trends. The first is the power of social networks. Facebook Connect allows our members to import their data from the social network. They can discover singles in networks of friends. But unlike Thread.com site , which already proposed this Smartdate proposes to amend the information from their Facebook profile. They are not obliged to remain in the same database of friends . Zoosk , another competitor, offers a link to Facebook but they do not have our level of technology. Users must install an application on Facebook . However, they are more important than us because they have three years in advance.
The second trend is that of mobile . We will soon launch a mobile application. This responds to a strong interest from our customers. The option geolocation contacts will however opt-in to preserve the privacy of profiles.

What is your business model? Are you close to profitability?
We offer a subscription model with three options: 50 euros for a month, 80 euros for three months and 150 euros for a period of 12 months. Each of these rates was chosen by about one-third of members. These are the prices we proposed at the beginning but will eventually evolve depending on the application. We do not do advertising . Regarding profitability, we do in fact very far . Our turnover is multiplied by two or three every month since launch.


Fabrice Le Parc, 32 , graduated from HEC Paris , is the founder and CEO of Smartdate . He has worked in many start -up before participating in 2003 in two reality shows on the theme of the meeting : "Operation Seduction " and " The Bachelorette " in the United States. In 2006 , he launched the dating site Be2 in France and Benelux. Development Smartdate in 2010, he has surrounded himself with a team of 25 people.

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Meetic and Smartdate face online

For their Internet site for dating , Meetic and Smartdate not have the same budgets but must meet similar problems : engine relevant research, emailing tools , solid infrastructure , protection of certain data .... What are the solutions chosen by the historical actor and his challenger ?
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Meetic and Smartdate face online
Search engine , content filtering , personalized emailing and instant messaging tools and chat : dating sites must deploy technical solutions to meet the wishes of their members.
How to ensure the safety of a dating site ?
Mounted loads, protection of sensitive data safety dating sites is crucial.
The issue smartphones
Meetic and Smartedate , the choice of mobile OS is also pondered the method development .

Olivier Siegwart ( Meetic ) : We uses technology Pertimm . Nevertheless, we could benefit from features specifically designed for us. One that allows our members to seek others in a certain geographic areas, especially , was the result of a specific development.
Wissam Kahi ( Smartdate ) . We had initially outsourced the development of the engine, but we then réinternalisé . It is largely built on a house algorithm. We naturally enriched continuously .
One of its strengths is to take into account the views of other users . Amazon and other e-commerce sites have an engine with a similar feature : it allows the client to suggest a product that buyers of the same product also purchased .
" The trick is to integrate the time dimension in the engine " ( Smartedate )
We then also inspired by the technology that won the competition launched by Netflix. [ As a reminder, this site streaming video on demand promised $ 1 million to those who succeed in significantly improving the accuracy of predictions tastes of its customers. This is the algorithm of Bellkor company won , improving 10% the relevance of search engine results . Ed]
His trick is to integrate the time dimension into the engine. Tastes can indeed evolve over time , and ultimately it is the latest affinities that should take precedence over older ones. Bellkor then moved us to integrate their technology to our site, we are currently investigating .

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France: dating sites for teenagers

Parents do not have the slightest idea that free dating sites for teenagers proliferating on the Net for a year or two, relying , for some, to bring 100,000 or 200,000 members.

Designed to " facilitate meetings " between users 11 years ( or 13 years) to 25 years , their operation is most often modeled on adult sites such as " Meetic ". Except that they are " men of 15 years" and " woman 13 years " that create a profile with photo and description of themselves , who launched the search for a soul mate according to such criteria, receive messages private , participating in chats sometimes including the use of video ?

The combination of " E- childhood" prevention, says she has never been alerted by parents on these sites, but the judge " hallucinating ". They grow very young to present itself as the most attractive as possible sexually . Their advertisements (often managed by Google, silent on the subject ) lead teenagers to pornographic sites that are forbidden to them . More worryingly they fully assume facilitate meetings between major and minor . "Before the age of sexual consent to 15 years , it is the corruption of minors ! And as everything is purely declarative , "

The photos published by adolescents on these sites , where they often appear in suggestive poses and try to highlight are that they are ideal places for pedophiles .

Incomprehensible that these sites can be classified in the same "category" for teens 13 years and young adults aged 25 . As if their needs were the same as if they had the same understanding, the same maturity, the same experiences , the same emotions . In doing so, we do not protect them, but in addition we offer them in good conscience , to be exposed to real dangers they will not measure the magnitude, because they are just teens and that this age we firmly believe that we are smarter than the neighbor and that taking risks is exciting.

This is worrying because through these sites , they will communicate with people they do not know and have as a project to meet a partner for a night or maybe more . This is the purpose of dating sites. It is clear , and adults who attend know the rules and take responsibility . Judging by the number of people who visit these sites , many find their account , others are disappointed , but all act knowingly and freely.

week, a 40 year old man was caught in his car raping a young 14 year old girl he met via the Internet. Each day brings sordid stories made insults, harassment, teasing all kinds of indecent photos published in the school yard . Because, protected behind their screen , they feel free to say everything and do everything, leaving deploy with extreme violence aggression that adults no longer contain .

While sites give them the opportunity to chance encounters with impunity , it is disturbing and totally irresponsible.

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42 million email addresses stolen on dating sites

The Australian publisher of dating sites Cupid Media leaked data from its 42 million users , says security expert Brian Krebs, Wednesday, Nov. 20 . Cupid Media operates a treintane dating sites " niche " , by country, religion, ethnicity or interests. Data discovered by Krebs Birna early November , would come from a security breach identified by Cupid Media in January.
Few data seem to have escaped the collection : user name , email address, password "in the clear " (without protection) and anniversary date. Anyone with these data could identify sites instead of the user. If the person uses the same password for his e-mails , they are also accessible.

SOME USERS WARNED

" In January , we detected suspicious activity on our network, and from the information we had, we made decisions that seemed most appropriate by contacting affected customers and changing the passwords of a group particular user , "said Andrew Bolton, executive director of the company Mr. Krebs. According to the company , a " large part " of the 42 million accounts listed are old , inactive or deleted. Officially Cupid Media has 30 million customers, that would be the only alerted.

The editor says dating sites have hired an outside expert and reviewed the safety of its services. To a specialist, examined by Mr. Krebs, 42 million email addresses collected from Cupid Media would be a gold mine for spammers . Members of these sites would be more sensitive than the average to spam for pharmaceuticals ( viagra, slimming pill ... ) or other dating services .

In recent years, particularly in recent months , many companies have seen hackers access their databases containing data of their users. IDs stolen from Cupid Media have also been found on a server that has already hosted those acquired from the publisher Adobe software on PR Newswire and in an organism fight against economic crime and electronics ( NW3C ) in October . Adobe giant had thus "lost" in August 130 million encrypted passwords of its users. In March , it was taking service Evernote notes that would reset the passwords of its 50 million users ...

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"On the dating sites as elsewhere, a feather flock together"

Where does the bad reputation of dating sites, often presented as supermarkets love?

Marie Bergström * - In literature and film , the romantic encounter as we implement this chance. Dating sites are increasingly disrupting the myth of blind love inviting to clarify lovers tastes. In fact , sites change less amorous practices how to tell this event. Deprived of the traditional story lovers, online dating leave a doubt about the nature of relationships that result. This leads many users to not to mention they met on the internet. They fear that their relationship is devalued and considered less "serious" than those who start elsewhere.

These sites have they changed the nature of the relationships of young French ?

Online dating are similar in many ways the model dates in the United States , the rendezvous between two people with very limited prior knowledge and sometimes with the mutual commitment is low. The date does not necessarily mark the beginning of a relationship , it is an appointment to test the waters and can be "dating" simultaneously with several potential partners.

Dating sites have they allowed the French to fulfill their sexual desires more easily , apart from the peer pressure ?

Online dating takes place outside and unknown to the circle of sociability. This facilitates transient relationships, particularly for women whose sexual behavior always been an important social control by the environment . The risk of being stigmatized as " slut " is lower when partners are recruited on the internet. This is not yet possible to conclude a change representations related to female sexuality. Sites seem to change the sexual practices rather than standards.

Sites , one chooses criteria. Is not it a risk of reinforcing social divisions ?

On these sites , as elsewhere, that a feather flock together ! Large general sites like Meetic welcome a diverse population and invite members to sort later. This love online selection is often presented as a " choice on profile " . They forget the written communication! Users also evaluate based on messages they exchange . This is when they remove contacts who have nothing to say to favor those whose social proximity facilitates the exchange .

On the internet where everything goes through writing , poor spelling is not it discriminatory ?

Among users with academically , spelling errors often lead to disqualify a potential partner. The use of language can locate the person socially but it is also found in moral terms or referred to traits . Errors of syntax or spelling errors are associated with neglect , youth or lack of value .

* Marie Bergström is a doctoral student in sociology at the Observatory sociological change. She finished a thesis on the use of dating sites in France

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Dating sites for teenagers worried parents

On the model that exists for adult sites offer young people 11 to 25 years to relate . A new offer singled out by doctors who warn against the risk of abuse .




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The emotional life of teenagers longer limited to the court of their schools , their sports or their " booms ." The market for online dating sites , more and more flourishing for adults, also attacks young . A phenomenon that worries parents and doctors who see these sites often uncontrolled risk of serious abuses .
 These free sites that offer young people 11 to 25 years to relate them meet a success growing for over a year , claiming some 100,000 to 200,000 members. On operation, these dating sites are inspired by their elders, as Meetic . Profile page, private messages, chat , video, everything is there.
To attract teenagers, these websites rely on a free and fast registration - it is without needing the consent of parents - the opportunity to discuss endlessly with other members and to put photographs in the like what happens on Facebook . The design does the rest of the hearts and photographs torque imply that love can be at the rendezvous . When it is not explicitly stated , as in Kiss- Teen "Do more hesitant , come discover the community Kiss- Teens . Perhaps You will meet the love of your life , who knows ? "
A campaign launched Tuesday

Beyond the risk adolescents meet bad , psychiatrists warn against the " exhibitionism" which can show young people in this kind of situation. Photos of young naked girls, lascivious poses , boys in shorts ... Many clichés that remain on the Internet and could one day be used against them . Asked about terrafemina.com , psychologist and psychotherapist specializing in childhood and adolescence Beatrice Copper -Royer sees this phenomenon as " the imitation of an adult whose children do not have the key behavior". "It does not mean anything they need . At this age, you do not have to go through a screen to meet , " she says .
The government must launch Tuesday a new campaign against bullying in schools , which include a component of the fight against cyberbullying .

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How to maximize your meetings with seduction online?

Online grooming itself up today as a functional and effective adaptable tool . But you need to know to use it. If you can effectively maximize your meetings , risks not stand you are just as numerous. A bad approach to the phenomenon may indeed cause you to spend a lot of time crunching in a vacuum. Luckily for you , we are here today to give you the keys to success in this process, unknown by many of your "competitors" to your greatest advantage.

1) An easy approach to seduction

Let 's face it , online grooming is the privileged field of timid men , who dare not necessarily address the young women they like on the street or in their everyday environment . At first glance, the possibility offered by dating sites , can refine the search and increase contacts with women in search of attractive man in underwear from his living room is inviting.

The contact is indirect and the pool of targets very important , the failure of a particular interaction is quickly relativized . Even to the point of using it to improve in the subsequent development of affinity with others .

The anonymity and distance promote awareness of our ability to attract , to continue our journey after a misstep , and most importantly, to please women that we never had ( for many of us ) the courage to address other conditions. A good way to avoid female idealization and resume gradually confidence in its own intrinsic qualities.

2) A tool that fits like a glove



Seduction on the ground , in addition to stressful part it may take , is hampered by physical constraints . You do not always have the time or the opportunity to speak to and highlight complicity with women that make you the effect instantly . What sometimes create frustration and leave you hungry .

Seduction online it satisfactory that you can engage them at any time of day or night (there are ALWAYS connected women , especially if your choice is a reputable site will have ) , and your approach may be batchwise but is not only understood as a lack of social cognition .

If an exchange of emails can then be paid, it is hard to imagine indeed a similar situation in the street to ask a woman to stay properly seated in front of a warm coffee time to make your working day, before returning finish your seeming focus totally inconsistent.

3) The effective way to increase meetings

One of the best ways to get your game when you register online, this is definitely not refuse to pay the subscription is provided to you . Even if it can go up to 30 euros per month, this sum is relative. First, because it is just a dinner out per month , but also and especially because it allows you not to be limited.

Can you imagine discuss and meet many women if you can not answer your mails, or view only 7 profiles per week ? Not, in practice, to register without paying the subscription is up to you to limit children's menu in a restaurant ... What to miss the most tempting dishes , in fact.

4) The care given to your profile: the key to success

This is probably the best news you'll hear today: if competition is very strong on online dating sites , its level is relatively low. Men are NOT effective in this area .
Indeed , catastrophic profiles are legion.

Poorly chosen to uninteresting descriptions and stuffed with misspellings through the mail contact too impersonal pictures ... the missteps are so many that you will not be very difficult to establishing yourself as an attractive man in a few days ( thanks to our method tested on the ground, anyway) .

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Most men adopt a totally wrong position : for them, the ladies are necessarily connected loose women , desperate , seeking above all carnal exchanges. You quickly realize that this is rarely the case.

5 ) Understand the expectations women : a necessity

On the internet , it is women who have the power . Contrary to popular belief, they are not primarily looking for a lover or a one night stand . If the status of singles looking for love is claimed , their expectations are often high . Social pressure is relativized and can finally choose their suitors freely (which is rarely the case in their environment : the seductress being misperceived , a woman rarely assume a process of seduction in public) .

Understand that this is really you " prey " ( at first ... ) will allow you to better integrate the system. Women who respond to your advances will test you constantly to assess your potential compatibility . To maximize your meetings , you must carefully analyze the profile of the past and show your adaptation approaches.
In addition , seduction online offers can physically do not limit yourself to a single interlocutor . This not only keep an open mind and to relativize the vagaries of an unsuccessful contact, but also increase opportunities for physical meetings .

Maximize online dating back in fact to understand the mechanism of seduction online and meet your interlocutors (in your contact, but also in your presentation). Lastly, it is vital not to give importance beyond measure . Failures you will not necessarily attributable , and the pool always more important. The lightness of the phenomenon should be interpreted as an opportunity to strengthen your power of seduction, without taking your head !

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